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Friday, November 20, 2009

I realised it is not easy to maintain a relationship. A relationship of any kinds. Between friends, family or your very own loved ones.

At first, i thought friendship would be easy to maintain. But as i grew up in this more realistic world of mine, it isn't that easy though. Cause as we grow up, people tend to have their own set of minds and ways of doing something. Due to this difference, conflicts and disagreements arise slowly and very silently. Some might not even realise this. Not because we're too ignorant or don't care, but because some of us thought that some things should have remain the same and if the past was okay, why not the present and the future right? Actually these stuffs can get complicated and messy. But all i can say is try to solve it straightaway and with your mind please. Don't get carried away by anger and frustrations cause we just can't think when we're pissed off. If you're mad with your friend, take a time off from her or him and settle your issues first before piecing out your thoughts to her or him. Just remember that, a true friend won't want to hurt another intentionally.

Personally for me, i still believe in 'friends forever'. Even though at times, we get caught up with school or work till we don't contact that much or maybe at all, i still believe that phrase. I still remember our fun times together. Each and everyone of them who had left a print in my life. Even though at times, i did a little something to at least not make the gap wider between us and the other is quite ignorant about it, i pat myself and say ''it is okay!''.

But of course, at times i can't deny that i do get sick and tired of it. I'm just a normal human being with alot of weaknesses. What do you expect? But no matter what, i still believe in 'friends forever'. Maybe time will tell. =)

Like yesterday, i came into contact again with Syairah who had been MIA-ing for so long. I missed her like tons okay. And i'm so happy we weren't awkward when we caught up with each other over the msn and sms.

I like things like this cause friends are really the colours of my life. =)

Love idah.


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